Sometimes to embody new beliefs we must be willing to let go of our ‘sacred cows,’ – cultural or familiar. Those ingrained beliefs whose release comes at the cost of changing everything we know about ourselves, and the world around us. It’s a tough choice and obviously doesn’t happen over night. We move into it one step at a time, which come from empowered self-awareness. These may include beliefs that we need to suffer rather than just being happy. Or, that we aren’t powerful, loving beings that have no control over our lives. Changing those archaic beliefs means that you must take responsibility for yourSelves, by using your energy wisely, and be constantly aware that in each moment, you are always creating the world you live in. The Whole Self-Fulfilling Prophecy has as much power in the positive as it has in the negative.

Never forget that the Divine is within you, and the Universe takes every thought, word and action as a direction. I reiterate constantly that it is ALL for my Best & Highest Good and the Highest Good of ALL. Sure my life is far from perfect, as I’m still learning lessons, however they need to be brought to me. And, I also need to remind myself of my power, and how I use it.

This whole, total responsibility for your own lives is not easy, and I ask for help often from my angel-guides. I also need to remind myself that I AM worthy, deserving, or capable of a personal, individual Source/God connection. And any time that I slip into a belief of limitation, I need to stop, deep breathe and reaffirm that I’m loved unconditionally, so there can be no lack or limitation. I will not accept a belief that I am unworthy of the Divinity that is the core of my being.

Only You can decide how empowered you want to be, then let your old beliefs go, so you have room in your life and heart for your new Awareness. The Universe is supporting you into your improved life, and wants you to thrive. You have learned from your past, and know this moment is a focal point for choices that create the future. Your heart knows its ability to create a future of Love. And, as always, the most important relationships is with yourSelf – your SpiritSelf. If you don’t have love for yourself, your other relationships will not evolve positively. Be more compassionate toward yourSelf – accepting your flaws. This is beyond Self-esteem, as that is often how others judge us or we think we need to be. No one wants to be ‘average’ any more, it is no longer enough for most of us. Sometimes that means putting others down, or being critical so we feel better.

The negative ego can also grab onto Self-Esteem, turning us into competing or not thinking we’re ‘good enough’ when we are more than that. Compassion is being human – ‘warts and all’ as we all have problems, and that is the great leveler of humanity – our common ground. No one lives in Disneyland. Things happen to us all, or those we love – it’s life. The best motivation to keep going is to stay positive, and not let the Self-criticism tear us down, as that accomplishes nothing. Compassion means Self-Support for improving our mental and physical well-being – every little step needs praise and gratitude for being able to take it. Remember your Self-Worth and that you are valuable, so embrace your sadness by opening your heart to give to yourSelf, and to others. This doesn’t mean that there are no challenges. Let your Love be the dominant force in your life, and Love boldly. Others will make their own choices. Don’t let their choice overpower yours. Embrace your true nature, accept your quirks and contradictions. Love them and be the best ‘you,’ you know yourself to be. Now that’s Empowerment.