Look for what is right, not what is wrong. When you change, everything else around you will change too. Do Not hold onto any kind of a negative thing or situation, ask for and look for the positive that will come out of it, though you may not see it instantly. Believing something good will come out of something bad, difficult or painful, sets you open for those positive things to come to you. If you keep dwelling on the negative, that is what it will remain – negative, as you are feeding it the negative energy. “All aspects of your journey are valuable. Nothing is wasted.” When you accept that all experiences on your journey are the lessons to be learned in life to grow and change from, be grateful for them.

Things don’t always work out as planned, even when we believe we are doing them in the most positive light. Often this is not about the right/wrong/good/bad, but alignment of timing. We’re human and keep track of time linear, while there is no real time in the Universe, as it unfolds to fulfill our deepest desires and needs. This is sometimes quite difficult for me, as I’ve said I’m overly organized, and want things done on time. Just as separating discernment – a positive thing, from judgment – a negative thing. When I catch myself, which is sometimes after the fact of ‘something going wrong’ according to my schedule, I repeat my mantra. “Divine Right Order in My Life for My Best & Highest Good, AND the Highest Good of ALL.”

It is then that I need to accept that whatever I was asking or wanting, either didn’t fulfill the mantra or my ‘timing’ was off. In other words ‘Not Now.’ I have to go back to square one, and reset my intentions with more discernment, no judgment, so time becomes supportive of my desires. Not easy, sometimes frustrating, but again in life it is all about the lessons learned when possible. Certainly this beats pushing for the wrong things again and again, which so many determined people do. Important to also check if fear is lurking buried somewhere around that desire – you say you want it, but are actually afraid to have it, or don’t feel you deserve it. Those are biggies to acknowledge. Once again, a good time to breathe deep, clear out your thoughts to rethink how connected your mind and heart are with your desires. Find and release any hidden fears keeping you from having what you want, AND deserve. Think about how much you’ve contributed to it’s success also. Be empowered as to who you are – perfect in all ways in your imperfections, as you are loved unconditionally.

You, as always or should be, in control of YourSelf, Your life, Your Now reality, and therefore Your world. Do not limit yourSelf with Earthly-time restraints, as you are truly living in a Universe without boundaries that is moved by Divine Timing. Ask for, and be open for ‘Divine Right Order’ in your life, for ‘Your Best & Highest Good, AND the Highest Good of ALL.’ I work on this daily, and when I don’t, it shows me rather explicitly. I know when it is working, as all flows for me. It is a process, and you can do it – work on it, too.